Saturday, February 12, 2005

Signs and Wonders #3

But the man was anxious to justify himself . . .*

I think I've spent way too much of my life being defensive about my actions and my beliefs. Defensiveness is an antagonistic posture which pulls back, assumes the worst and draws lines for self-protection. It shows a lack of trust and is a barrier to healthy relationship.

I wonder if I can be reprogrammed to respond to challenging perspectives and negative judgements without defensiveness, to disarm potential opponents with an open mind and listening ear.

Disarming openness. I like the sound of it.

*Luke 10:29

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